sorry!

bitchology: being a bitch means...i stand up for myself
and my beliefs. i stand up for those i love. i speak my
mind, think my own thoughts, or do things my way. i won't
compromise what’s in my heart. i live life my way. i
won’t allow anyone to step on me. i refuse to tolerate
injustice. it means i have the courage and strength to
allow myself to be me. so try to stomp on me, douse my
inner flame; squash every ounce of beauty i hold within.
you won’t succeed; and if that makes me a bitch..so be it

promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can
disturb your peace of mind. look at the sunny side
of everything and make your optimism come true.
think only of the best, work only for the best,
and expect only the best. forget the mistakes of
the past and press on to the greater achievements
of the future. give so much time to the improvement
of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

live with the faith that the whole world is on your
side so long as you're true to the best that is in you.

success is how high you bounce
after you hit the bottom.

if you give up when things get hard,
it shows you never really wanted that dream.
if there ever was a day to turn it all around,
today is that day. you are brand new.

"some women choose to follow men and some women choose to
follow their dreams. if you're wondering which way to go,
remember that your career will never wake up in the
morning and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."


for what it's worth; its never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. there's no time limit, stop whenever you want. you can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. we can make the best or the worst of it. i hope you see things that startle you. i hope you feel things you've never felt before. i hope you meet people with a different point of view. i hope you live a life you're proud of. if you find that you're not, i hope you have the strength to start all over again

it was like having it this close to your dreams and then watching them brush past you, like a stranger in the crowd. at the time you don't think much of it. you know, we just don't recognize the most significant moments of our lives while they're happening. back then i thought, "well, there'll be other days." i didn't realize that that was the only day.

well i don't know where i’ll go now and i don't really care who follows me there, but i’ll burn every bridge that i cross and find some beautiful place to get lost

make it happen. prove them wrong.

i think everyone at some point, goes through that one moment where they think "my god, i can't do this". but you know what? you can. no matter how close you are to the edge, no matter how badly you feel like giving up, or think it's best to do so rather than have to put up with the pain - don't. don't lose hope that things will get better. don't give up, because there is someone out there who will make you smile in a way no one else ever could. keep that glimmer of hope alive in your heart, because someone is out there searching for your smile. so wipe your tears and keep your head held high.

love is such a strong word. & if you are going to use it, make sure you know what it means. `cause it hurts to hear and know that you don't mean it.
= alone and restless <3

i realize that when your heart breaks you have to fight like hell to stay alive because you are that pain you feel. that’s life. the confusion && tears. that’s there to remind you that somewhere out there is something better && that something better is worth fighting for <3
= one tree hill; nathan scott

throughout a girl’s life, she'll kiss a lot of guys, and i promise you she'll forget almost half of them. she’ll remember a few, but there will be that one guy, that one moment, that she'll remember for the rest of her life. you were that guy, that one kiss, that one moment.

sometime’s all a girl really needs is a hand to hold and a heart that will understand

take chances, date someone totally wrong for u, know someone random, be random, say "i love you" sing out loud, laugh at a stupid joke, cry, apologize, tell someone how much they mean to u let someone know what they're missing, don't be afraid to say "i miss you"

the one & only thing i want right now is to find a guy who likes me for me, a guy who isn’t afraid to act like himself around me & for me to be able to act like myself around him...someone to cuddle with & make me feel wanted...someone to love & someone to love me

i've stopped dwelling on the bad things; and began loving the good things in life. there's so much you can miss out on if you’re not willing to look at the happiness. so live with a forgiving heart, an open soul, and without a care in the world.

the suns gonna shine and the rains gonna fall. and in the end you might get burnt or wet but thats life, so dance in the puddles and bathe in the sun, and at the end of the day smile everythings gonna be alright.

"the biggest disease
this day & age is
that of people
feeling unloved."
-princess diana

mr feeny- why do we always say no?
eric-because you don't love each other enough
mr-feeny- how do you know that?
eric-because if you did, you would risk everything,
even the lives you've made without each other for that love
-b0y meets w0rld

it`s not about being
who everyone else
wants you to be
it`s about being yourself
& finding someone
who loves every bit of it <3

find the one you can be yourself in front of and say
absolutely anything, you can laugh, you can cry, you
can hug, you can fight w/ him& then make up at the
end of the night & he would still be crazy about you

happiness is the secret to all beauty;
there is no beauty that is attractive without happiness
-- christian dior

it`s the little things
that mean the most <3

funny how a photograph
can take you back in time
to places and embraces
that you thought you left behind

some days the whole world seems upside down and then somehow when you least expect it the world rights itself again. - grey’s anatomy

i believe people fall in love, but i think at this age it’s easy to fall out of love. - the hills


the only thing really that there is left to do is to forgive and forget. i want to forgive you and i want to forget you. - the hills


something tells me that if we were really meant to be, you’d be fighting to be with me.

some love stories aren't epic novels, some are short stories but that doesn’t make them any less filled with love. - sex and the city

beast: i want to do something for her... but what?
cogsworth: well, there's the usual things: flowers... chocolates... promises you don't intend to keep...
- beauty and the beast

it’s up to you to find beauty in the ugliest of days

stop running after them. just stop it. sit down, read a book, watch the tv, go to sleep. if it's really meant to be, they'll turn around and be like, "wait. she's not chasing after my ass anymore," and then he'll stand up, put down that book, and run like the wind to get you back.

it doesn't matter anymore. i guess things happen for a reason. tears eventually fade and one day everything will be exactly how it's supposed to be. moving on is a process & you have to promise yourself that you're really ready to let go.

if you really need him, fate won't let you lose him. fate will bring him back. it may not be soon, but he'll come back.

i've learned the best way to live life is with a smile on your face. sure, there's reasons to frown, but there are more little reasons to smile. :)

hello broken heart, my name is love.
maybe you've forgotten - we've met before.
i'm here to remind you of better days;
i'm here to teach you how to live again.

maybe we're moving too fast, i don't know.
but for the first time in my life, i don't really care.
[summerland]

god would never take something away from you,
without the intention of replacing it with something so much better.

so take your empty words, your broken promises, and all the time you stole because i'm done with this.

take one breath and then take another. repeat these steps until you feel you are doing better

don’t make someone your everything cause when they leave, you'll have nothing.

life is about chasing after the things you truly
think are worth it, even if they don't happen. .
i'd rather have nothing than know i settled - -
for something i didn't want. –selma hayek

love is always a good thing no matter how much it hurts. even after it’s over, even though the pain, anyone who has ever really loved will tell you that they never regretted a second of it, no matter how much it hurt in the end & if you tell me differently, i will tell you we're not truly in love <3

there's a point in life when you get tired of
chasing everyone & trying to fix everything
but it's not giving up, it's realizing you
don't need certain people & all of their bullshit.

don't ever let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve what you want.
- 10 things i hate about you

i felt something catch in my throat, a sudden surge of sadness. it caught me unaware, almost taking my breath away. that was the thing; you never get used to it, the idea of something being gone. just when you think it's reconciled and accepted, someone points it out to you and it just hits you all over again.


as soon as you start to have romantic feelings for someone, you're fucked. you and this person are going to hurt one another. even if you are together for the rest of your life, you're going to feel indescribable pain. when you're in, no matter how deep, you're in.


i miss you doesn't even begin to cover it. i miss everything about you. about the past. and about how happy i was back then.

"i finally understood what true love meant...love meant that you care for another person's happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be." - dear john


sometimes despite our best wishes and intentions, fate wins.

most often we fall in love with the person we think we love but to only discover that for them, we are just for passing time while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger. so here’s a piece of advice; let go when you’re hurting too much, give up when love isn’t enough, and move on when things are not like before. for sure there is someone out there who will love you even more. - unknown

here's my theory on men and women. when a man meets a woman he decides within around thirty seconds whether or not he finds her attractive. if he doesn't, they become friends. if he does, they might become friends, but the potential for them to become lovers never quite goes away. when a woman meets a man she decides within around thirty seconds whether or not she finds him attractive. even if she doesn't, they become friends, but at any given point in their relationship she could fall in love with him. she could fall in love with him because he's kind, sensitive & he makes her laugh. because she grows up & realizes the sexual attraction is not the be-all and end-all to life. because she finally realizes that she deserves a nice guy. that nice guys aren't all boring. that sometimes they do wonders for your ego, that sometimes they're just what you need. - straight talking by jane green

each of us may think we know exactly what we need to make us happy, what will be good for us, what will ensure we have our happy ending, but life rarely works out in the way we expect, and our happy ending may have all sorts of unexpected twists and turns, be shaped in all sorts of unexpected ways. - jane green

you know, the right guy won’t get you to change. he won’t subtly pressure you. he won’t tell you who you can and can’t talk to. he won’t hide the fact that you’re hanging out. he’s not gonna tell you you’re wrong for feeling; for being a girl. the right guy will show you off to his friends. he’ll take it as slow as you want. he’ll only go as far as you’re comfortable with. he’ll take you out to places, even if it’s just a fast food place or the store. he’ll actually sit through your stupid, girly movies with you because he just wants to be with you. the right guy will come along someday, you just gotta tough it out and wait for him. but whatever you do, don’t settle for the wrong guy. you deserve so much more. - unknown

even when you don't want to - actually, scratch that. especially when you don't want to, get out of bed, do your hair and make-up, put on your prettiest dress and those sky-high heels and strut your stuff.

ex's are ex's for a reason. because at one time in your life, they proved to you they were a prize-winning dickhead. what's changed?

are you here because you need me? or you need someone?

here's to life, as beautiful and as painful as it may be.

when it's real. when it's right. don't let anything stand in your way.

one of the toughest parts in life is deciding when to give up or try harder.

the most important thing is to enjoy life…to be happy. that's all that matters.

you can wish upon a hundred stars, but that won't change a thing going on in your life.

it's hard, it's hard to not know what you want, but somehow need to keep moving foward at the same time.

there are better things ahead than any we leave behind. -c.s. lewis

people know the truth, they may not like it, or want to know it, but, but they always know. -the last kiss


if i could explain love in one word, it would have to be trust. trust that he doesn't cheat on you, trust that he doesn't lie to you, trust that he really likes you, trust that he will always be there for you, trust that he can go to a party and not get high or drunk, trust that you don't have to worry about him breaking up with you the second you wake up, trust that he will stick up for you, trust that he will never fall in love with another girl, trust that he won't just get sick of you, and trust that he wants you like you want him.

i cannot change what i cannot control.


“unless your heart, your soul, and your whole being are behind every decision you make, the words from your mouth will be empty, and each action will be meaningless. truth and confidence are the roots of happiness.”

here's to empty words and even emptier promises. here's to a lack of trust and settling for less than you want.

i don’t regret anything because it’s life’s little twists and turns and bumps and bruises that make you who you are. why would i regret that? - dawson's creek

go with your gut but use your head. - the hills

in my lifetime i've come to realize that you can't depend upon other people for what you want, and you can't be scared to go out there and get it. you have to dream hard, wish big, and chase after your goals, cause no one else is going to do it for you. and even if things don't work out, you'll always be able to say you tried.


i won’t deny that i was happy with us and that i loved every second when we were together but things start for a reason and they end for a reason, too.

i guess life took us in two different directions and maybe that's okay with you 
but sometimes i find myself trying to find my way back to where you are.

it's amazing, really, just how much pain the human heart can take.
-nora roberts


move out of your comfort zone. you can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new. -brian tracy

just because something is unspoken doesn't mean that it disappears.